Grown Women/ Mean Girls
Grown women are the worst mean girls.
Recently I’ve had an experience with Grown Women/Mean Girls. Literally one person stop liking you and the entire crew started distancing themselves from you. For some reason women don’t seem to care that they are hurting other women. They rather build themselves up by tearing you down.
I didn’t realize that this Grown Women/Mean Girls syndrome happens more than often:
Women in the workplace who don’t want to see you succeed because you’re excelling.
Women who see something you have and envy you because they don’t.
Women who are jealous because people like you and they aren’t likable.
Ladies, it’s 2018, stop trying to tear down other women and pull them out. I realize some of you may not know what you’re doing and think that your behavior is ok but it’s not. Check those three points up top to see if you fall into the category of Grown Women/ Mean Girls. Stop trying to justify this behavior. I see this too often where women don’t want to help each other out. It’s enough bags out there for all of us. Stop hating / bringing each other down and start inspiring / lifting each other up.
My experience wasn’t great however it made me think twice about how I treat others. Ladies, if you are experiencing hate from these women, remember who you are and WHOSE you are. Also, it’s not about you it’s about their insecurities. Now, I compliment and keep it moving. That’s the best gift you can give a Grown Woman/Mean Girl.