The Giver

In the spirit of Mental Health Awareness month, I wanted to write a blog about givers. If you’re like me and you love to give, it comes naturally, and it’s just who you are; it can be a gift and a curse. 

Listen it’s nothing wrong with being a giver. The real issue comes when you’re constantly giving to people who drain you, don’t appreciate you, and who wouldn’t do the same for you. 

Don’t drain yourself giving to people who wouldn’t do the same for you. Now I get that some people physically can’t give back, but mentally would be there for you if you needed them. That’s different. Evaluate those people who are capable of giving but never return the favor to you. 

It’s a thin line between being a giver and being someone who is taking advantage of or not appreciated. 

To all of my givers out there, learn how to set limits because takers have none! Protect yourself!