Hurt People

One thing I’ve learned this year is that how others treat you is a reflection of what they are going through. This goes both ways.

The statement is true, Hurt People Hurt People.

So, when you are feeling like you are being attacked and someone is constantly hurting you. It could be intentionally or unintentionally. That doesn’t event matter.

What matters is that you know that 9 times out of 10 the issue is deeper and bigger than you.

So, in this season of mine, I’ve learned to look past the hurt, betrayal, or wrongdoing. Instead I’ve learned to pray for whatever is going on inside of that person. Now, the next time someone hurts you, just know that their hurt is probably bigger than what you can do for them.

It’s absolutely ok to love and cheer from a distance. Just don’t beat yourself up because most of the time there is nothing you can do.